Wednesday's Words to Live By For Feb 29th - Mar 6th
"Don't Let The Spirit of Deception Deceive YOU"
Here is your Wednesday's Words to Live By for the
Scripture: 1 Peter 5:8-9 (www.biblegateway.com -
alert! Watch out for your great enemy, the devil. He prowls around like a
roaring lion, looking for someone to devour. 9 Stand firm against
him, and be strong in your faith. Remember that your Christian brothers and
sisters all over the world are going through the same kind of suffering you
This week’s message is especially for women;
although, everyone can benefit from it. Don't be so desperate for a husband that
you overlook the warning signs God is showing you!!! Follow the warning from the
Spirit of discernment! Discern, discern, discern! The spirit of deception is on
the loose looking to deceive silly women who are seeking a husband!! Seek first
the kingdom of God and His righteous and then everything else will be added. The
Bible says a man who finds a wife finds a good thing, not a wife. Don't be in a
hurry! That spirit of deception is trying to take you out; this is nothing to
I can tell you about this spirit because the person
it was using contacted me a week ago and God delivered me out of its grasp. I
knew something was not right, that was the Holy Spirit warning me, but I allowed
him to keep talking and later I begin to seek God as to who this guy was and I
had my friends praying with me and for me. Because I literally felt that the
words he was saying was drawing me to him and I am like, “wait a minute,
something is definitely not right.”
See, if I would have listened to the flesh and
allowed myself to get caught up in what he was saying, I would have been
through, finished:). That night, I had two of my friends pray with me, I had to
get serious with this spirit and I wanted God to stop this before I got any
deeper, oh I had only been talking with him for ONE week. See how fast that
spirit move and try to suck you in?
The next day, God showed me who this guy was, and I
cut the ties between us. Just that quick, I had formed an emotional soul tie
with him, in one week. Why, because he sent me 72, yes 72 emails in one week.
That might not be a lot to you but it is to me:). He was texting me all during
the day, saying, he miss me and asking me how was my day. All those enticing
words were going where, into my soul.
I did not even have to think on them, once I read
them and heard them, they went into my being.
That is why I am revisiting these sociopaths because
the devil never gives up, he just go away for a season and come back (Luke
4:13). I have been divorced since July 2006, and since then I have been
actively seeking God for God to do whatever need to be done in my life and to do
what He called me to do. Now, about six years later, here comes another
I was just going to post Donna
Andersen’s web site (www.lovefraud.com) which explains
fully about sociopaths on Facebook, but God wanted me to share with you the
realness of sociopaths also and let you know that sociopaths are the prime
candidate for a spirit of deception to use. Why? Because sociopaths has no
conscience; they will not think twice about allowing the spirit of deception to
use them to totally the destroy you. That should not be a surprise to you,
that's what the devil do: steal, kill, and destroys BUT Jesus came that
we might have life and life more abundantly (John 10:10).
Jesus is the good Shepherd, and He protects His sheep
(John 10:7-10)! Thank You Jesus for snatching me out of the wolf’s mouth!
I thank God for saving me from this spirit of deception and yes I have forgave
the person. God let me know no matter what people do to us, we must forgive
them. As I was forgiving him, I actually felt sorry for him because he was lost,
going around trying to deceive God’s people. So I prayed for his salvation also;
I was obedient to God’s Word in Roman 12:14; Luke 6:28; Matthew
Roman 12:14: “Ask
God to bless everyone who mistreats you. Ask him to bless them and not to curse
them” ” (www.biblegateway.com –
Contemporary English Version).
Luke 6:28: “Ask God
to bless anyone who curses you, and pray for everyone who is cruel to you”
Contemporary English Version).
“44 But I tell you to love your enemies and pray for anyone who
mistreats you. 45 Then you will be acting like your Father in heaven.
He makes the sun rise on both good and bad people. And he sends rain for the
ones who do right and for the ones who do wrong. 46 If you love only
those people who love you, will God reward you for that? Even tax collectors
love their friends. 47 If you greet only your friends, what's so
great about that? Don't even unbelievers do that? 48 But you must
always act like your Father in heaven” (www.biblegateway.com –
Contemporary English Version).
Through this experience, I am writing another book,
entitled, “After the Abuse, After the Recovery, Now What?...Moving On With
Your Life.” In this book God told me to explain to women the importance of
seeking Him BEFORE they decide to get married. God has delivered them,
restored them, and taken them through their recovery process, now they “feel”
they are ready to get married again but are they really?
Are they so ready that they will overlook the warning
signs that God is showing them about that person who came into their lives,
saying, “I am a man of God and I love God” but all the time their spirit man is
not agreeing with the person?
Are these women who say they love God and want God’s
will to be done in their lives going to overlook what God is saying to satisfy
the flesh? Something to think about! I am not going to give you too much of a
glimpse of my book:) you have to just wait until it is released.
In spite of everything that happened to me last week,
I am glad that I had that experience because through it, God has strengthen me
It was hard to get rid of that emotional soul tie, I
felt like something was being ripped out of me and when I first stop
communicating with this guy, I felt like a part of me was missing. WOW, this
stuff is nothing to play with; the devil wants to jack you up so that you get so
deep in bondage that it takes a long time to come out of. But he is a liar!!!!
Thank God for coming rescuing me! But if I had not prayed and my friends had not
prayed for me, by now, I probably would have been so deep in the devil’s
control; it would have taken me back into the bondage of domestic violence and
Therefore, use my experience to not be so quick to
get into a relationship. I don’t know what the world happened in my case:). I
just answered the guy back after he sent me an email (in 2008 I had posted my
info on a Christian web site , yeah I know nowJ and I had not really thought of
it since) and I responded. From there, it turned to a full pledge “hot
mess” leading to him wanting to marry me:). Another thing, in my opinion,
those dating web sites is not a good thing. Anyone can sign up on a Christian
web site and pretend to be a Christian; just saying! I know they are not
Anyway, as one of my ex-Pastor’s said, “how in the
name of God and good sense” did this happen? These sociopaths are smooth
operators but they are not smooth enough to fool the Holy Spirit! Thank God for
the Holy Spirit in me recognizing who that guy was when he came into my life.
But I gave him the benefit of the doubt! Do not do it! When God reveal the
person to you, get out then don’t be fooled! I gave the guy the benefit of the
doubt because he said he wanted my friends to pray with us to make sure God
approved the relationship; yeah right!
I went to that web site and deleted my profile,
AFTER deleting every email, text, chat, picture, poems, etc. that he sent
me. Then I had to pray to God and go to the deliverance team at my church for
deliverance AND denounce every soul tie formed. It is not worth it!
Listen to God the first time He speaks! When you get the first red flag, stop
it then, don’t try to give the person the benefit of the doubt; that spirit
came to steal, kill, and destroy.
Remember, if you desire to get
married you must prepare yourself for marriage! A good web site that can help
you prepare is Karen Jantzi’s blog site: http://intendedformarriage.weebly.com/index.html
Excellent web site for information
about soul ties and other topics: http://www.b4prayer.org/index10.html